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How can I help you or your organization?

Hi! I'm Nyx, and I'm available and excited to help kinky individuals and organizers create safer, and more inclusive experiences together. My focus is on fostering a culture of consent and agency, particularly within alternative lifestyle and LGBTQIA+ communities. Below is a list of the services I offer to support these goals:

- Seeking a Shame-Free Exploration of Kink? Nyxie offers personalized coaching and support to help individuals and couples explore kink in a safe, responsible, and shame-free environment.

- Passionate About Consent and Agency? If you're looking to foster a culture of consent and agency within alternative lifestyle or LGBTQIA+ communities, Nyxie provides in-depth education and community support.

- Looking for a Presenter, Educator, or Speaker for your Kink or Sex Positive Event? - Nyxie has multiple offerings and can work with your organization to find the best content to offer your community, whether via podcast, webinar, or in-person classes and workshops

Looking for Practical, Hands-On Learning? From teaching classes to leading demonstrations, Nyxie offers engaging and tailored education on consent, safer practices, and responsible kink, look in the slides below for currently offered classes and demonstrations.

 

What I'm up to...

Events, Classes, Appearances

SINagogueBDSM Podcast Appearance!

A hilarious dive into sadistic tickling with The Rabbi and Lil Bit

Dominance Dialogues

Check out my episode on Dominance Dialogues where I chat with Rope Aficionado about Sadistic tickle torture

We had a great chat and you can listen here!

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SpankJam!

Back to Basics

 

September’s Spank Jam brings us back to the essentials of safe and satisfying impact play. Whether you are brand new or looking to refresh your foundation, this session focuses on body mapping and choosing the right implements to fit your scene.

 

Burgers Workshop for Normalizing NonMonogamy

Oct 16 Workshop!

 
 

BURGERS for Agency is a foundational workshop that introduces a playful yet powerful framework for understanding personal agency in kink and everyday life. Using the BURGERS acronym, participants learn to identify internal and external barriers to agency, explore how consent is only meaningful when rooted in autonomy, and gain tools to support more intentional decision-making. This workshop helps attendees sharpen their awareness, build resilience, and engage in power exchange with more clarity and care. It's accessible, affirming, and designed to empower all roles and experience levels.

Choose your own adventure!

L.I.R. Presents!

Ever wished your scenes had the thrill of a Choose Your Own Adventure book? In this playful and creative class, you'll learn how to design customizable scene structures with pre-negotiated choices that incorporate spontaneity while maintaining safety. Whether you're topping or bottoming, this approach adds an element of surprise, making each play session feel fresh and dynamic.

We'll explore methods for creating branching paths, utilizing randomization tools, and ensuring all choices align with your excitement and consent. Perfect for those who enjoy mystery and unpredictability in their play, this class provides the tools to craft scenes that unfold unexpectedly—without sacrificing consent and agency.

trans affirming impact

Trans Affirming Impact Play

Impact play can be an incredible tool for connection, empowerment, and pleasure—but how do we ensure it feels affirming for transgender and nonbinary partners? This demo-based class explores how to approach impact play with care, respect, and deep consideration for trans bodies and identities.

We’ll cover how to ask sensitive questions about body parts, adapt techniques to accommodate unique physical needs, and offer affirming feedback and aftercare. Through discussion and demonstration, we’ll practice language and strategies that foster safety, agency, and joy.

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Creating a Care and Keeping Document for Better Service Dynamics

Juggling multiple partners and dynamics can be rewarding—but keeping track of everyone's needs, boundaries, and care preferences can feel overwhelming. Enter the Care and Keeping document: a living, personalized tool designed to streamline communication and enhance connection.

New Mexico Leather Fiests

New Mexico Leather Fiesta

Leather Fiesta 2025!

Join us for three days of socials, classes and play parties!

Oct 31 – Nov 2, 2025

 

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Bawdy Storytelling Folsom Street Faire Edition!

Join me and other musical acts and storytellers in this raucous evening of sexy smutty kinky story time, with games and prizes!

Viridi Lux Consulting

Nyxie Noc, Presenter, Educator, organizer, consultant and coach

 

Nyxie Noc (Any/All Pronouns)

Nyxie Noc is a seasoned and compassionate Domme with decades of experience as a sex worker, fetish content producer, and educator in kink, consent, and advocacy. It has supported conduct and consent teams for various kink and sex-positive organizations and has provided safer-play orientations to over 850 participants, along with personnel orientations to more than 100 staff members within these communities.

Nyxie’s work is driven by a passion for the freedom of expression found within kink, and it values the transformative power of every scene and interaction. It is dedicated to creating safer, more inclusive play spaces and fostering supportive communities.

Its collaborations include work with organizations such as Sex Geek Summer Camp, Boundless Events, AfterDark Events, and Stopgap Dungeon. Through its insightful workshops, engaging demonstrations, and personalized one-on-one coaching, Nyxie endeavors to shape a future where exploration and expression are not only embraced and celebrated but also safeguarded. Its approach is rooted in the principles of equity, accountability, education, and harm reduction.

Approachable and empathetic, Nyxie Noc is committed to helping others navigate their journeys with confidence and care, ensuring that everyone can experience the profound connections that come from a culture of consent and inclusivity.

 

"I hired Nyxie Noc to be the “Consent Lifeguard” at a summer camp-themed business retreat I run for sex educators called Sex Geek Summer Camp. Nyxie brings fresh, new perspectives to the consent and agency conversations in sex-positive spaces, including her innovative BURGERS for Agency concept, which adds a vital layer to the well-known FRIES for Consent framework. I believe that anyone involved in this work would benefit greatly from incorporating BURGERS for Agency into their communities and practices. I’m genuinely excited to see how Nyxie’s contributions continue to shape and improve the consent culture and support in our spaces, and I look forward to working with her more in the future."— Reid Mihalko, Founder of ReidAboutSex.com and Sex Geek Summer Camp
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Reid Mihalko
Founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp