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How can I help you or your organization?

Hi! I'm Nyx, and I'm available and excited to help kinky individuals and organizers create safer, and more inclusive experiences together. My focus is on fostering a culture of consent and agency, particularly within alternative lifestyle and LGBTQIA+ communities. Below is a list of the services I offer to support these goals:

- Seeking a Shame-Free Exploration of Kink? Nyxie offers personalized coaching and support to help individuals and couples explore kink in a safe, responsible, and shame-free environment.

- Passionate About Consent and Agency? If you're looking to foster a culture of consent and agency within alternative lifestyle or LGBTQIA+ communities, Nyxie provides in-depth education and community support.

- Looking for a Presenter, Educator, or Speaker for your Kink or Sex Positive Event? - Nyxie has multiple offerings and can work with your organization to find the best content to offer your community, whether via podcast, webinar, or in-person classes and workshops

Looking for Practical, Hands-On Learning? From teaching classes to leading demonstrations, Nyxie offers engaging and tailored education on consent, safer practices, and responsible kink, look in the slides below for currently offered classes and demonstrations.

 

What I'm up to...

Events, Classes, Appearances

Reign Of Pain

Reign Of Pain Virtual Con

Come learn about  Tickle Torture with live demo with this fantastic online virtual con!

Sinagogue Podcast

SINagogueBDSM Podcast Appearance!

A hilarious dive into sadistic tickling with The Rabbi and Lil Bit

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Ethical Dominance Part 1

Join me for Part 1 of my Ethical Dominance series!

SpankJam!

Spank Jam! Jan 28, 2025

 

Join us for "All Tiddies Great and Small," a February Impact Jam dedicated to celebrating chests and nipples of all sizes and genders as a thrilling and overlooked canvas for impact play. We’ll demonstrate techniques using hands and tools to create a variety of sensations, from gentle taps to electrifying smacks, tailored to this often-neglected area. Whether you’re curious about how to incorporate chest impact into your scenes or eager to refine your technique, this class is a fun and inclusive space to explore. Come ready to learn, laugh, and discover the sensual and erotic possibilities of chest-focused impact play!

Doors open at 6:30 PM and close at 7:15PM.

Beyond The Cliché: Cucking Outside The Box

Beyond The Cliché: Cucking Outside The Box

Dive into the sensual, provocative world of cuckold fantasies and explore their limitless potential for connection and excitement. This class is your gateway to crafting thrilling and emotionally charged scenes that titillate the senses and deepen your play.

We'll start by unpacking traditional cuckold roles—cucks, cuckqueens, hotwives, and bulls—and expand the narrative to embrace a kaleidoscope of queer identities and genders. Why do these fantasies captivate so many? What drives the allure of surrender, subjugation, and tantalizing taboo? We'll explore these questions while weaving in tools and techniques to bring your fantasies to life.

From the art of humiliation to the thrill of mind-fuckery, you’ll learn how to infuse your scenes with creative elements like toys, bondage, degradation, and roleplay. Whether you're a curious beginner or an experienced player, this class offers insights for anyone who enjoys any role in cuckolding dynamics.

Come ready to explore, laugh, and learn in a safe, supportive environment. Together, we’ll craft memorable, fulfilling scenes that embody your desires and elevate your play to unforgettable heights.

Insidious Ignominy

Insidious Ignominy

"Insidious Ignominy: The Art of Covert Public Humiliation"

 

Discover the art of subtle humiliation in "Insidious Ignominy," a 200-level kink workshop that explores covert ways to incorporate degradation into public or semi-public environments. This class emphasizes creating thrilling, consensual scenes while carefully navigating the safety and comfort of all involved, including bystanders.

 

We’ll delve into techniques for discreet and creative humiliation, crafting moments that excite without crossing ethical or legal boundaries. With a strong focus on consent, safety, and public decorum, this workshop ensures you can explore these edgy dynamics while respecting everyone’s agency.

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Recognizing and Cultivating Agency in Kink

Let's Talk About Agency

We love "informed consent", but... How can you tell if someone, or yourself, is making informed choices in their play and relationship? What is happening when we feel like we needed to say "yes", even when we didn't really want to? How might a lack of agency lead to coercion, or how sometimes harm still occurs even when everyone said "yes"?

Personal agency plays a pivotal role in fostering safer and more fulfilling kink experiences. Whether you're new to kink or an experienced player, this class will provides you valuable insights and tools for enhancing trust, negotiation, and the overall safety of your kink experiences.

Viridi Lux Consulting

Nyxie Noc, Educator, organizer, consultant and coach

 

Nyxie Noc (She/Her)

Nyxie Noc is a seasoned and compassionate Domme with decades of experience as a sex worker, fetish content producer, and educator in kink, consent, and advocacy. She has supported conduct and consent teams for various kink and sex-positive organizations and has provided safer-play orientations to over 850 participants, along with personnel orientations to more than 100 staff members within these communities.

Nyxie’s work is driven by a passion for the freedom of expression found within kink, and she values the transformative power of every scene and interaction. She is dedicated to creating safer, more inclusive play spaces and fostering supportive communities.

Her collaborations include work with organizations such as Sex Geek Summer Camp, Boundless Events, AfterDark Events, and Stopgap Dungeon. Through her insightful workshops, engaging demonstrations, and personalized one-on-one coaching, Nyxie endeavors to shape a future where exploration and expression are not only embraced and celebrated but also safeguarded. Her approach is rooted in the principles of equity, accountability, education, and harm reduction.

Approachable and empathetic, Nyxie Noc is committed to helping others navigate their journeys with confidence and care, ensuring that everyone can experience the profound connections that come from a culture of consent and inclusivity.

 

"I hired Nyxie Noc to be the “Consent Lifeguard” at a summer camp-themed business retreat I run for sex educators called Sex Geek Summer Camp. Nyxie brings fresh, new perspectives to the consent and agency conversations in sex-positive spaces, including her innovative BURGERS for Agency concept, which adds a vital layer to the well-known FRIES for Consent framework. I believe that anyone involved in this work would benefit greatly from incorporating BURGERS for Agency into their communities and practices. I’m genuinely excited to see how Nyxie’s contributions continue to shape and improve the consent culture and support in our spaces, and I look forward to working with her more in the future."— Reid Mihalko, Founder of ReidAboutSex.com and Sex Geek Summer Camp
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Reid Mihalko
Founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp