Go Back Up
DSC_0071_

Take your consent and agency skills to the next level! Sign up here for a free mini-workbook!

 

How can I help you or your organization?

Hi! I'm Nyx, and I'm available and excited to help kinky individuals and organizers create safer, and more inclusive experiences together. My focus is on fostering a culture of consent and agency, particularly within alternative lifestyle and LGBTQIA+ communities. Below is a list of the services I offer to support these goals:

- Seeking a Shame-Free Exploration of Kink? Nyxie offers personalized coaching and support to help individuals and couples explore kink in a safe, responsible, and shame-free environment.

- Passionate About Consent and Agency? If you're looking to foster a culture of consent and agency within alternative lifestyle or LGBTQIA+ communities, Nyxie provides in-depth education and community support.

- Need Guidance on Handling Consent Violations? Nyxie can help you or your organization develop effective policies and strategies for addressing consent violations, ensuring a safer space for everyone.

-Looking for Practical, Hands-On Learning? From teaching classes to leading demonstrations, Nyxie offers engaging and tailored education on consent, safer practices, and responsible kink.

 

What I'm up to...

Events, Classes, Appearances

View the Lineup
Agency

Recognizing and Cultivating Agency in Kink

The Missing Piece

In this class, we explore the pivotal role of personal agency in fostering safer and more fulfilling kink experiences. Students will gain a deeper understanding of how agency empowers individuals to make informed, confident choices in their play and relationships.

We'll discuss barriers to exercising agency such as social pressures & power dynamics, internalized expectations, and how these can complicate the practice of consent. By developing the ability to recognize and navigate consent challenges, participants will learn to use their personal agency more intentionally, ensuring clearer communication, mutual understanding, and safer interactions.

Whether you're new to kink or an experienced player, this class provides valuable insights and tools for enhancing trust, negotiation, and the overall safety of your kink experiences.

scream!!!

AfterDark Presents: Scream!!!

Come and see me house top for impact scenes and tickling at this fun Halloween event. Come as you aren't!

Aura

Aura

The Premiere Event for Femme Dommes

Whether you're making new friends, engaging with the house tops, daring to join the Gauntlet, or playing the night away - Aura provides the perfect setting to immerse yourself fully in this incredible community

Viridi Lux Consulting

Nyxie Noc, Educator, organizer, consultant and coach

 

Nyxie Noc (She/Her)

Nyxie Noc is a seasoned and compassionate Domme with decades of experience as a sex worker, fetish content producer, and educator in kink, consent, and advocacy. She has supported conduct and consent teams for various kink and sex-positive organizations and has provided safer-play orientations to over 850 participants, along with personnel orientations to more than 100 staff members within these communities.

Nyxie’s work is driven by a passion for the freedom of expression found within kink, and she values the transformative power of every scene and interaction. She is dedicated to creating safer, more inclusive play spaces and fostering supportive communities.

Her collaborations include work with organizations such as Sex Geek Summer Camp, Boundless Events, AfterDark Events, and Stopgap Dungeon. Through her insightful workshops, engaging demonstrations, and personalized one-on-one coaching, Nyxie endeavors to shape a future where exploration and expression are not only embraced and celebrated but also safeguarded. Her approach is rooted in the principles of equity, accountability, education, and harm reduction.

Approachable and empathetic, Nyxie Noc is committed to helping others navigate their journeys with confidence and care, ensuring that everyone can experience the profound connections that come from a culture of consent and inclusivity.

 

"I hired Nyxie Noc to be the “Consent Lifeguard” at a summer camp-themed business retreat I run for sex educators called Sex Geek Summer Camp. Nyxie brings fresh, new perspectives to the consent and agency conversations in sex-positive spaces, including her innovative BURGERS for Agency concept, which adds a vital layer to the well-known FRIES for Consent framework. I believe that anyone involved in this work would benefit greatly from incorporating BURGERS for Agency into their communities and practices. I’m genuinely excited to see how Nyxie’s contributions continue to shape and improve the consent culture and support in our spaces, and I look forward to working with her more in the future."— Reid Mihalko, Founder of ReidAboutSex.com and Sex Geek Summer Camp
reidM

Reid Mihalko
Founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp