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How can I help you or your organization?

Hi! I'm Nyx, and I'm available and excited to help kinky individuals and organizers create safer, and more inclusive experiences together. My focus is on fostering a culture of consent and agency, particularly within alternative lifestyle and LGBTQIA+ communities. Below is a list of the services I offer to support these goals:

- Seeking a Shame-Free Exploration of Kink? Nyxie offers personalized coaching and support to help individuals and couples explore kink in a safe, responsible, and shame-free environment.

- Passionate About Consent and Agency? If you're looking to foster a culture of consent and agency within alternative lifestyle or LGBTQIA+ communities, Nyxie provides in-depth education and community support.

- Looking for a Presenter, Educator, or Speaker for your Kink or Sex Positive Event? - Nyxie has multiple offerings and can work with your organization to find the best content to offer your community, whether via podcast, webinar, or in-person classes and workshops

Looking for Practical, Hands-On Learning? From teaching classes to leading demonstrations, Nyxie offers engaging and tailored education on consent, safer practices, and responsible kink, look in the slides below for currently offered classes and demonstrations.

 

What I'm up to...

Events, Classes, Appearances

Sinagogue Podcast

SINagogueBDSM Podcast Appearance!

A hilarious dive into sadistic tickling with The Rabbi and Lil Bit

SpankJam!

Spank Jam! March 25, 2025

 

March’s Impact Jam brings the sting with "Canes, Crops, and Evil Sticks," a deep dive into the punishing impact of long, narrow tools. From traditional canes to wicked crops and the notorious Evil Stick, this class explores the art of delivering sharp, stinging sensations with precision and control. We’ll discuss safety, body placement, and techniques to maximize pleasure (or punishment) while minimizing risk. Perfect for those who crave the sharp kiss of a stinging tool or want to add new skills to their impact play repertoire, this class offers hands-on demonstrations and plenty of inspiration for your next scene.

Doors open at 6:30 PM and close at 9:30PM.

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Trans affirming Impact Play

Impact play can be an incredible for connection, empowerment, & pleasure — It can also be affirming for transgender & nonbinary partners! This workshop explores inclusive language, techniques, and aftercare to create an empowering experience for all.

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House Topping Workshop!

Unlock the art of exceptional community service in kink spaces through our transformative **House Top Training Workshop**! This intensive class is designed for those who aspire to elevate their skills and understanding in providing safe, consensual, and enriching experiences within local dungeons and community events.

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Bully!

Humiliation, Degradation, and Wedgies

Ever fantasized about playful torment, schoolyard-style shenanigans, or a bit of good-natured hazing? Join us for an exciting exploration into the art of humiliation and degradation in a safe, consensual, and thrilling environment.

First KinkCon

Your First Kink Con

Ready to dive into your first kink or sex-positive event? Whether it’s a convention, retreat, or expo, Your First Kink Convention is your ultimate guide to making the most of it! This fun and informative class will help you prepare for the adventure, from packing essentials and planning logistics to navigating the sometimes-overwhelming event atmosphere.

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Nyxie Noc, Educator, organizer, consultant and coach

 

Nyxie Noc (She/Her)

Nyxie Noc is a seasoned and compassionate Domme with decades of experience as a sex worker, fetish content producer, and educator in kink, consent, and advocacy. She has supported conduct and consent teams for various kink and sex-positive organizations and has provided safer-play orientations to over 850 participants, along with personnel orientations to more than 100 staff members within these communities.

Nyxie’s work is driven by a passion for the freedom of expression found within kink, and she values the transformative power of every scene and interaction. She is dedicated to creating safer, more inclusive play spaces and fostering supportive communities.

Her collaborations include work with organizations such as Sex Geek Summer Camp, Boundless Events, AfterDark Events, and Stopgap Dungeon. Through her insightful workshops, engaging demonstrations, and personalized one-on-one coaching, Nyxie endeavors to shape a future where exploration and expression are not only embraced and celebrated but also safeguarded. Her approach is rooted in the principles of equity, accountability, education, and harm reduction.

Approachable and empathetic, Nyxie Noc is committed to helping others navigate their journeys with confidence and care, ensuring that everyone can experience the profound connections that come from a culture of consent and inclusivity.

 

"I hired Nyxie Noc to be the “Consent Lifeguard” at a summer camp-themed business retreat I run for sex educators called Sex Geek Summer Camp. Nyxie brings fresh, new perspectives to the consent and agency conversations in sex-positive spaces, including her innovative BURGERS for Agency concept, which adds a vital layer to the well-known FRIES for Consent framework. I believe that anyone involved in this work would benefit greatly from incorporating BURGERS for Agency into their communities and practices. I’m genuinely excited to see how Nyxie’s contributions continue to shape and improve the consent culture and support in our spaces, and I look forward to working with her more in the future."— Reid Mihalko, Founder of ReidAboutSex.com and Sex Geek Summer Camp
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Reid Mihalko
Founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp